Wow....busy thread today. My response is quick, and it applies to my W and your H......FISH OR CUT BAIT!!! Your H needs to decide if he wants to be a part or full time H. My W needs to decide if she wants to be on her own or not! Can't have one foot in the door.
Great to see you, Dotty and Chuck last night! And yes....I do plan to get out and see the world!