Quote: Take his clothes for example, when he was thrown out of the door, who packed his stuff and let him go?
chuck it was many months before he actually left that I "paked" his stuff and told him to leave... when he decided to leave I told him it would not help us and would ultimately be an end to us... he took his stuff on his own that time... and little by little took more and more as time went on... hell just a week before he decided to try he took all of his pats baseball hats with him to his appartment... so though in anger I did "pack" all his stuff in trash bags telling him to leave.... when he did leave it was he who packed and went... did I want him to leave??? not really but I was tired of living with someone who didn't show me that they wanted to be with me.
the sunday night thing.... honestly chuck I wouldn't have much of a problem with it if he actually came home after, but because he doesn't and chooses to stay at his appartment on those nights it is annoying to me... when i go out regardless of where or what time till, I come home!!
You are right I should realize that he did say he would start leaving some stuff here but the point still remains that he should want to leave stuff here... should want to come home from work when he's done not go back to his appartment to hang out and take a shower and then get here at 7.
I grow tired of reading this board and seeing how many men there are out there that would do anything for their wives and children while I sit here holding out for a man who does what he wants for himself.
