This just seems like such a weenie way to have somebody else make her decisions for her. Then she's blameless in the end because it wasn't up to her. HELP!!! anybody done this?
I think my H was doing a similar thing - wanting ME to kick him out so he didn't have the guilt. I did finally ask him to make a choice - because neither of us could live as it was but I didn't honestly expect him to jump so quickly
Whatever you do, be prepared for what you're asking to happen to actually happen.
....Understand, that I can't, not be what I am I'm not the milk, and Cheerios in your spoon ~ Avril Lavigne ~ ..."Nobody's Fool"...
