LL-I understand your anger at his procrastination. I feel the same way but I am not ready to give an untimatum. Instead I would rather let himsee me going on and doing other things and let that be his ultimatum. Everybody has their limits on what they can take and no one should fault you for saying "enough already". The way they keep us hanging is cruel in my eyes. They only think of themselves and their own feelings. I too am weary of it all. I'm not goinh to wait forever for him to decide if he loves me enough to be my H again in every way. That is not love. Love is commitment and honor and integrity. I want it all and it sounds like you do too. This is the second time in a yr my H has moved out taking my heart both times. I still have my weak days where I want to call him and see him becasue he willusually say yes,but where does that get us. IT's not HIM wanting ME. When he starts calling me then I will know he is starting to turn towards me. I just hope I can be strong enough to hold out. It sounds like your H still cares very much for you and is uncertain about his decison. Maybe he needs a wakup call. IF you are ready for the consequenses then I don't see anything wrong with letting him know where you stand. Good luck! Rachael
