inLIN My husband doesn't live with me and he asked for a divorce. How can I save my marriage? He really just seems to want it over and I don't know how much longer I can go on. I haven't had any companionship since last May. He was already talking to this OW for two months and and it went on till the being of July when I found out about it. We have three children together. They are 13,10 and 4 years old. They all have broken hearts over this,but he still is very involved with them. It's so hard seeing him everyday and see this OW just about everyday. Our daughters are the same age and are friends.They place sports together.I'm not sure how long a it takes getting a divorce started, but I know I am not ready yet. I want to make sure everything is good for the kids and myself first. I don't really care what he wants. I just want peace. Two years is a long time and I don't know if he deserves a second chance if it takes him two years to come around. Maybe I should just call it quits and give up.I'm not sure it's worth all the hurt and pain. Thanks
