Not at the moment. She used to be on Zoloft, but went off it when she was pregnant. Hasn't been on it since then. Her anti-depresent of choice these days is OM, and since she hasn't been in contact with him (to my knowledge) she has been significantly more depressed.

She was not "this kind of person" when I met her. It developed over time. Once the affair started, she started to blame everything on me and the marriage. Things got worse and worse.

She is seeing a therapist. I don't think the therapist is addressing significant issues. I also think she's reinforcing my W's thinking that the relationship is implicated in her depression. She had issues with depression starting very early on in her life. She never resolved them. Now she focuses on the relationship as the cause of it rather than what she can personally control - her choices.

No offense taken, btw.


“No problem can be solved from the same level of consciousness that created it. ”
– Albert Einstein