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Well, there certainly little doubt that his problems transcend the OW and/or his relationship with you. In some way, I realy hope that his current problems serve as some sort of reality check and push him to seek the help that he desparately needs. Hopefully he'll catch a glimpse of himself in the mirror and recognize that treatment isn't just about skipping a stay in the psych ward, but a path to a better life for him. Unfortunately, as I've learned from my own experience, sometimes even the thirsty horse still resists drinking.

How stressful for you and the kids though! Seems to me that you could use a vacation :-)

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but, I have to wonder if being THAT sedated is a good thing.


Hmmm, as it related to me, I'm not so sure its a bad thing \:\)

Keep posting, its good to hear from you again.


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