I have tried to get these kids into see a C. Oldest wants nothing to do with it and I can't force her. D11 see's a C at school. She's a woman who has sessions with all the kids who's parents are going through a D. Mine, of course is seeing her twice a week, with the group and just a 1 on 1 session. She is definatly the worse case at her school, with her mother moving and no contact. All in all I get reports that she is doing quite well under the circumstances. Her grades have improved. She's more socal. And her teachers have no complaints.
This last issue really has me bothered. Part of me believes that this convo. really happened and another part is wondering. I haven't said anything else to D about it and need to let it die. It's just I new her mother for 35 yrs and NEVER thought she could ever say anything like this. Her actions are conferming it though. She never calls the girls. Didn't call or send anything for Christmas. Called 1 day late on oldest B-day a month ago. I don't really expect anything for them for V-Day.
