I am SO SORRY about the accident, but I am so glad to know you and baby and DD2 are okay.
Having BTDT myself, there is often an enormous amount of guilt that follows a potentially life threatening situation, especially when you are at fault... simply because it is difficult to turn off the 'what if' scenarios that keep running through your head.
That's normal, and it will fade in time. Try to go easy on yourself. Get out and drive around as much as you can (climbing back up on the horse).
