waiver is a good way to put it but have to press on. He wants out...he can have out...then when i am gone when he thought with me gone he would be happy....uh oh....still not happy gee it wasnt W after all. He and 25 yr old OW can press on towards their gloomy ending which will come.....just a matter of time.


Me 53
H 51
OW 25
Bomb may 06
left june 8/ 06
ILYBNILWY (twice!)
7/6/07 H wants to come home
7/21/07 H comes home
7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW
now piecing in earnest