Karen- I'm so sorry to hear about your accident and so happy to hear that all were safe.
Stop feeling so guilty. Think about it this way. If the same thing had happened to your H you would have been equally supportive, right? You're a good person too, right? Also, all the "selfish" demands for sex and attention that you've been making on your marriage are equally balanced by the "selfish" demands for your goodwill about living in a state of near celibacy that your H has been making.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
