I have a question. I know that the sex we had meant more to me than it did to her but I was going to sent her a thank you in a simple valentine card. I am going to find a very generic card and put a little letter just saying thanks. This will be the firat thing I have done like this since October or earlier. Hell I can't remember when I last did anything for her. Should i test the water now or continue on the way i have?