I stopped getting mad and am now just sad for my W. She comes to me and cries every time we talk saying that it is so hard and expects me to empathize (new word?). I never hear let's try again so I don't care. I dno't know if pity is better than anger but it has helped me detach and be happy. I think that is a serious step for everyone. I see my W hurt and it doesn't make me feel any better. Why would I want her to feel the way I felt? I can't want that for anybody.
