URGENT! OW had an abortion, H miserable

[NikB]

Ourcrisis, I'm sorry. Valentine's day's going to be rough for all of us I think. But it's really just a day, try not to let it get you down or put too much significance on it. Maybe you can even take your kids out to a movie or something, just try and ignore it as much as possible.

Oh and on the abortion thing - it is possible given what you've said here, but yeah it's also very possible the OW was lying. Either way I don't think it matters since you can't know for sure or convince your H of anything, though. I do agree she should be relying on other people for support, but not sure there's any way you could convey it that would be effective.

As far as the "facts" go though - yes, she could have scheduled one that quickly depending on her doc or what clinics are available in your area. The antibiotics check out also. I did a quick search for you, and here's the "after care" instructions:
http://www.meadowbrookclinic.com/followup.htm

Again not that it matters much, but wanted to share that info. Hope things improve for you soon, that's a tough situation!