Hope.....yes your marriage can be saved....my story was very bleak....but after 2 years of DB I really feel that now we are going to make it after all...
Yes we had a long term marriage....yes he had an affair....yes he told me it was over.....told me he didn't love me anymore...even said he had not loved me for 10 years or longer!!!
So as bad as things look and as hard as they are going to be for a while...it doesn't mean it is over....read all you can here.... you will find the support you need and advice that works....