Thats something you have to figure out. I am not going to dump my five years of relationship for this reason. I feel that if she decides to make amends with me, and go to counsling, I will make an attempt. I know that life is to short to let something like this get in the way of my family. If we both decide to change, and we work hard at a loving M, it is all worth it for my S. He deserves to be with the both of us. I do not want to be part time father. So, in all, I will always love her.
M-31 W-25 S-1 1/2 bomb dropped 9-01-06,and repeating over and over "I, not events, have the power to make me happy or unhappy today. I can choose which it shall be." Groucho Marx.
