2200 hits!! Blimey!!!! Had another good R talk tonight - H isn't stressed out by them AT ALL now!! We talked tonight about where we were, how we BOTH got it wrong and how we are going to move forward. We are both willing to work on this, we both realise we will have disagreements in the future, but that we can now deal with them far far better. And I like myself a lot more now .... for me, yes I've saved my M but the MOST important thing is that I am FINALLY getting rid of years of low self esteem. I never thought that was possible!! thank you all for kind replies and help along the way 0 I'm still hanging about, giving myself all of this year to make the "new me" natural, rather than having to think about it. Takes kindness and patience.
Bomb (ILYBINILWY, don't want to be married)Sept05 Seperated Sept/Oct 05 Oct 06 - H recomitted July 11 - I am now a WAW.
