Hi Jack,

I was glad I made that call too. H called me later to let me know he has to attend a 10 hour DUI class and a Victim Impact session. I talked with him briefly on Saturday and I ended the call with "I'll give a you call sometime next week." I think he was surprised because he asked me to repeat it.

Do you think it's wise to start making little contact with him to just say hi? I don't want him to think that I'm pursuing him, which I wouldn't be but I would like to for him to see that I'm still interested in him. I've been doing the no contacting him for so long it feels awkward.


M:43
H:37
D14 (ours) D18 (mine) S22 (mine) S18 (his)
S: 10/2004
Bomb: 2/15/05
In/out of home
Living with OW #4
Talks of D for 2-1/2 years