Excellent point! This may sound materialstic here but there is no way that I want to lose this house to her with what has been occuring. No the house is not the most important thing here - the kids are. And with this she has not been telling them the truth to why I have not been spending the night and how they do not see me as frequently when I was living there. I need to show my assertiveness on this and take a stand. What I am honestly questioning now is - do I want her as a wife after all of this - do I stil love her? I am not really sure
