Be strong, the M is not dead, its at a crucial point and you need to be. Read lots of books and articles, they will give you hope when you feel alls lost. I fell in love with Divorce Remody and I just received two more books in the mail yesterday. My W called and she wants to read one of them. Small things must keep you positive. She asked me if the books were for her and I said I was going to read them. Any interest is good interest. She asked why I was in a good mood, "did you go out and get laid this weekend?" she asked. I told her that I went to church and left there feeling great. I wrote her a note telling her that I was not going to have an A, or not going to file for a D, and told her that I turned over a new leaf. I explained that I was not angry and that our S is too important to me. I then said I was not going to talk or push her to talk about our M, just let it stay where it is at. You have a life to live and YOU are the one who needs to stay happy. Good for you about going out last night, you need that. Stay focused and stay strong!
M-31 W-25 S-1 1/2 bomb dropped 9-01-06,and repeating over and over "I, not events, have the power to make me happy or unhappy today. I can choose which it shall be." Groucho Marx.
