X,

You handled it perfectly. My H said to my 3 children that "the only thing holding him from his dreams is his wife and kids". They say stupid, selfish, weird things to try to rationalize their god awful behaviors. DETACH DETACH DETACH If you had any doubt this was MLC, now you don't.

Luv & Hugs


Me: 45
H: 43
Married: 19 years
Dated 05 years
Bomb: 11/06 OW - "I love her, but still want you as my friend"

Kids: 16 (s)
13 (d)
2 (d)

"If god is for us, who can be against us"