You're an awesome Dad my friend. You are storing up treasure in those two girls that will ensure that you will be a man wealthy in love the rest of your life. I can't imagine how anyone could have handled that news any better than you did.
And boo to your wife for being so callous that she would say these things directly to your daughter. I'm not sure that I could ever forgive my wife if she said such things to our boys. She is divorcing you (for no good reason), I can't imagine why she felt the need to drag your daughter into this mess as well.
Makes me want to tell you to stick to your guns VIGOROUSLY when it comes to the visitation issues that you've been dealing with. After comments like your wife made, I would say that she's got to prove alot to me to make me go out of my way to see that she spends time with her girls.
Hang in there my friend. We have in common right now the fact that we cannot make any significant headway with our spouses, maybe never will, but we CAN have a glorious life with our children and show them what true love and committment are all about. That's a wonderful thing for both of us.
Blessings,
Bill
"Don't tell me the sky is the limit when there are footprints on the moon."
