I just want you to know that I left for the same reason, she said she needed time and I gave it to her. Her time is up, I've been out for 6 months and on thurs. I am moving back in. I am scared like any one else would be. but Whatisis is right, you shouldn't of left and the advice I got in my thread from muddles and whatisis helped me a lot. You should read my thread and see what advice I got. I have been happier and stronger in the past two days and thats what you need to be. Don't give up, just give her the choice up front. Let her leave and be miserable w/o the kids. Thats what I am hoping for. My W to realize that family is more important than having an affair. Your right she will only see your changes if she is around you all the time. Thats what I am hoping for. GOD be with you. Good Luck
M-31 W-25 S-1 1/2 bomb dropped 9-01-06,and repeating over and over "I, not events, have the power to make me happy or unhappy today. I can choose which it shall be." Groucho Marx.
