Thanks for the responses...I should be used to his behaviours, he's only left, oh, lets see over 10 times.He was here yesterday, cake eating again, stayed for a few hours, then off to a friends house.Now saying, "if you need me call me, be good okay?? Be good?He's talking about starting his garden here in the spring, says he'll be back after our vacation?? Now, when the vacations over and he's not back?This is so F****d up! I don't know how to respond, what to say to him. Then, what he does is, he'll show up in church on Sunday, then off to Disneyland, doing whatever he does(fixing his race car, watching Nascar, hanging out with friends, family...It's nuts.I'm gonna lose it and say things unbecoming..