Brief recap of my sitch: Married for 4 years, together for 8. No kids. 1 dog. He dropped the "bomb" Nov 8th. He moved out that same day - hasn't loved me for years, never should have married me, wondered whether he was ever physically attracted to me, yadda, yadda.
As of tonight, I have concrete evidence that my WAH is seeing a co-worker. Someone I was suspicious of 10 months ago while we were still together. We've attended 3 marriage counselling sessions over the past 3 months he's been gone with the idea on his part to help me find closure on the relationship.
This past month we have had several opportunities to problem solve (had some flooding in our basement and began the process of a separation agreement through the Collaborative Family Law.) Our last couples session with the therapist was this past Wednesday. At that session and when I have asked him point blank on other occassions he has denied having an affair and is angry that people (myself included) think he's in a MLC.
I at last feel somewhat vindicated in that I now know the split has not been because of how bad our relationship was. I admit it was in a somewhat neglected state but my WAH is not very communicative and had not been telling me of his unhappiness. We still spent time together, were having sex, had vacations, etc. After a recent vacation last June he told me he had fallen in love with me all over again.
Fast forward to tonight. I drove by her place and his car was there. I have been standing for my marriage since he left. I have been GAL and he has noticed. Now that I have this new information - what do I do with it? I need advice.
