Had a talk with H about his male friend and me feeling like we are having to fit into his life as opposed to him having to fit into ours. Expressed my concerns about not doing the "us" things that we used to do (i.e. breakfast together Saturday mornings was my favorite and his) and we haven't done that for ages. He listened to me, got frustrated a little, but in the end (regardless of whether he called his friend and told him things were strained and he should stay home) he stayed home and we did go for a walk with the dogs and tomorrow he says we should talk a walk by ourselves along a canal that's is near our place - so I am a happy camper at this point.
And yes, I shouldn't complain, he is reading that book (which is absolutely wonderful and I didn't think it would interest him). He says it is "exactly" how he has thought it should be - I was shocked to say the least. Hopefully he will put some of the things into practice
Heywyre
M - 57 H - 65 1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02 2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06 together 21 years *************************** Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)
