I am so sorry for you and your D. I am a mother and cannot imagine EVER saying that to my kids. This proves your W is off the deep end. No sane person would say this o a child, let alone their OWN CHILD!!
Hope is right it can't be easy for a child to hear this. If she hasn't seen a C yet you might check into one. She may seem fine but that had to be devastating to her.
You are a great dad. I have read your posts all along and you shouold be very proud of yourself.
