You are so right: no sane woman would say that to her own child. She is definitely having a crisis. Please don't take this the wrong way, but if she were just another wife that didn't love her H anymore and wanted to move on, she would be handling this in a much more rational manner, and she certainly wouldn't have told her daughter that she doesn't love ANY of you...not even the children.
I'm very sorry your D was so hurt by that; who couldn't be? Do you think she is going to be ok? It isn't easy for children to let something like that slide off their backs. I really hope she will be all right, and you, too. So sorry.
Most of us really marry only once. First love endures, even unto our dying day. And we never really divorce.
