Hi muddle its been a while since I was on here too. Like November a while. How are you doing? I've read a bit of your posts and I see a lot of focus on your marriage. Thats great but what about you? You gave me a lot of good advice and I am doing great from it. I "gave up" on trying to fix my marriage and focused on finding happiness in me. All of a sudden I was happy. Now that has had an effect on my W. I don't know if you remember and don't blame you if you don't but she had said to me she wasn't attracted to me and would never be again. That changed yesterday. I posted my update in Divorced but not done because I have found that my sitch wasn't from an affair. I am glad to be here because I have hope in life and I want to give that to others just like you did with me. Keep on keepin on good man.
