She clearly stated that we can not live together under one roof - too stressfull for her and she is unhappy. When I say kick her out of the house I am only stating that with authority I tell her that I am comming back home. One thing with me leaving, we actually talked about this and I asked her if she would think about our relationship and I moved out could this help. She said yes. Then one week later said that she simply gave in to me on this and never thought about it. If she does stay, this will actually give me a chance to use the DB tools to attempt to show her that I have changed. Also, this has only been since Jan 29th that I have been gone. But far too long.