Umm, how do you get her out of the house? What if she says she is staying too? What then? As I always say, those who leave their home and kids without any legal agreement in place are putting themselves in a bad position. W can screw you around custody etc cuz YOU LEFT! Get back there but just be aware of the possibilities and have a game plan. You can't bodily throw her out or you'll be in the back of a cop car. And you might want to check and see whether she can legally bar you from the home, YOU LEFT so you don't live there anymore!