I do agree with this to a major point. However, my concern is that if I kick her out there will be no turning back for her. I have a major plus on my side here (secret wepon). I went to her parents first (and cryed my eyes out) I did give both sides to the story and state that I have not provided her quality time and have become a bore with job and life. However, both of them were more than supportive and called W a dreamer and was asking what she was thinking. On Wednesday W goes shopping w/MIL and will talk. It will be intersting to see what traspires. I am thinking if she does not say anything to me on Wed night - she is out of the house on Thursday.