One question? Why are you living somewhere else? There is no way I would have moved out. If she is the one having the A, and doesn't want to live with you, then SHE can leave. There is no way you should have to leave your house, your children, your life, just because SHE is the one that is not happy. If she wants to make some changes in her life, why are YOU the one accommodating her?

Just my opinion, of course.

Heywyre

M - 57
H - 65
1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02
2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06
together 21 years
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Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)