Well, I called SIL and told her my concern, she had a feeling I would contact her and has the situation all under control.
She told me that she had spoken to Grandma and said she better not pull the same crap she did at Christmas. She has to be gentle with these girls and if she is not, she will lose any type of relationship with them. Grandma told her that she was wrong in the way she treated Chelsea and that she assured her that she will not get in the middle again.
I was relieved to hear this and hope she sticks to it.I passed this info on to the girls. The oldest has NO desire to go, but Chelsea is looking forward to it. Like I said before, she loves her aunt and uncle and likes to be with them.
Who knows what might become of this. I'm still the biggest jerk, according to the family, (with the exception of these 2) And I really don't carewhat they think of me,(well, maybe a little) I was a GREAT son-in-law! And these other 2 are believing the lies my XW has told them. But there's nothing I can do about that. I have No control of that situation. It's their loss.
My girls love me and that really all that matters. Right? I'm getting more and more grey hairs over this. X
