Okay quick info. Wife said she wanted seperation and has no more feelings for me and unable to live under same roof. During the past couple months she had been carrying around her cell phone like it was her life. Confronted her and OM and they denied affair. OM in a broked marriage and only together for their 2 kids. I left the house on my own free will with being under impression she would think about relationship. I have 2 kids ages 3 & 6. I have seen his truck in driveway early morning (on call job) and know full well they are having an affiar. I have been gone for about 2 weeks now but I just can't stand the thought of those 2 in the house. 6yr old said that she has seen them kiss (not on lips) and being close. Plus, house is paid off and was done by my parents. I basically gave her everything that she wanted, house, 2 kids and OM. I just can not sit and be paitent as DB says. I need to be assertive on this. I am prepairing to move back in and state that you wanted seperation, refused to seek counseling to try and work on marriage, not telling kids truth on why I am gone and having an affiar. If you want out of my life then use the door and go, I am staying! Thoughts??
