Mepi,

By the way. If it's any consolation, I think the OM in your relationship is a bastard. Filthy, scum-sucking bastard.

As you can see...I have no issues with demonizing people. ;-)

When I described my sitch to several people, some of which were clergy, they said, "And why haven't you punched this guy in the mouth?"

By the way, don't do that. It won't win your wife over.

--Theoden