Heywyre, Your H reading the intimacy self-help book seems like a significant positive!
How are you doing with self-care? Are you finding time to do activities that you enjoy or find meaningful? Do you take a break from responsibilities and problems? Are you cultivating connection in your life?
These types of activities often seem absent from your posts. Are they occurring, and are not posted, or is this an area for improvement?
CL
CL 53 W 54 M 20 yrs. 03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL 10-14' Piecing
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