Well H and I are going out for a meal tonight and staying in a hotel!! All at H's suggestion. He really is trying with making sure we go out together quite often. I has been almost 3 weeks since we have been out as we have all been ill at various points so I'm looking forward to it.
H also hasn't worn his wedding ring for the last three days. H said he took it off for work which he always used to do in case he lost it as it is a bit loose.
Inpain, this is awesome news!! Have fun at the hotel and enjoy your meal. This is so inspiring.
Regarding the ring, there's this thing that we say at my company, "Assume the positive!" What happens when "we assume the positive"? We give the other person the benefit of doubt. It also stops us from putting blame on the other and it has us walking in the other person's shoes. We assume that there are good intentions behind what the other person was or is doing. That they didn't mean it. "Assuming the positive" creates goodwill!
THIS HAS BEEN A VALUABLE LESSON FOR ME IN WORKING AT A CORPORATION.
So now apply this to your H! ASSUME THE POSITIVE my friend!
And see the miracles unfold! Our thoughts have great power like they say in the movie The Secret. If you haven't seen it already, google it and buy it! It shows us how we have the ability to create our own reality. Think positive and keep an open mind. A ring is just a ring afterall! H MADE AN ENORMOUS EFFORT to take you to a hotel! This an action that a boyfriend of 3 weeks would do, not a long-term H. He means business, so enjoy...and RELAX!
How about CHILLAX?! Chill out and RELAX!
I love you Inpain...maybe we should change your name to Injoy!
Now wear that hot pink thong and low-cut blouse to your dinner tonight....giggles.
hugs and kisses rainbowlove ------------------------------------ JG is coming back to me and we're going to have a family. Positive thinking!
