momof2girls, I am so sorry you are going through this. I can only tell you what everyone tells me, BE STRONG. This is one of the hardest things to do but if you show you are moving on he will notice and think. My husband wants a divorce. I said no at first and then we talked I told him I still loved him but I can't make him stay with me and said ok. I however do have options and he went to see an L and I’m telling him I am also going to see a L. I can tell you he will not be expecting that. He thinks he is going to call all the shot and that is not happening anymore. I have had a wake up call and am taking me my life back. I don't know what is right and everyone is different. I seek help all the time so that I might still be able to save my marriage. I wish you luck too!
