Some days are better than other days. Last night H asked if I wanted to go out to dinner with BIL and SIL. I had class so couldn't go. I was surprised and hurt that he wasn't home at 9:30. Since he decided to stay out (drinking) I thought H would/should call and invite me to meet him. He didn't even call home to see if was home yet, or call on my cell phone. I didn't call him because I just expected him to be home when I got there. D16 was spending the night at a friends and I was planning a romantic evening. Instead I just went to bed. He wasn't that late, but I wasn't feeling very romantic by the time he did get home.
I need to stop being hurt by those kinds of actions (or lack of actions from H). It was such a different feeling, though, compared to Super Bowl weekend. Turned out there was a whole group that met for dinner (which he knew but didn't bother to tell me). He simply said I should have called him. Next time I will instead of pouting. (I was tired since I had been up since 4am so I really didn't feel like going out. I just wanted to be asked!) Matilda