Hope, Please read my story under "I need help" I am 8 wks into my seperation and my H is with OW...says there is no chance for us he is not in love with me anymore...been unhappy for 8 months. My issue is being able to accept the fact that he can dump me and the kids for OW that fast!! He is refusing to talk to me...I went to L just to know my rights...stupid me told him and now he is going on Thurs...I do not want him to file...meanwhile he only took enough clothes for work when he left and I still have control of all the finances...What kind of message is he sending to me??? I need advice on going dark because I don't think I am doing it right! I wish you luck!
