I didn't realize that you took antibiotics after an abortion??? They don't give them to you after having a baby???....maybe she has an STD infection???....
I also don't think you can schedule an abortion that quickly... of course I wouldn't know because I never had one or tried to schedule one...
I think she felt him slipping away...and if the PA really had ended perhaps she had to come up with this to suck him back in.. as he was obviously on his way out....
I don't think he should be her shoulder....certainly she must have a close g/f she can confide in....I think I would definitely want to put a limit on it...and if he is going to be her support they should meet in a public place to talk....not at her home in privacy where they could get physically close....not sure how you can carry this all off...or if you can...
keep us posted...I was afraid I might have had to face this because H had an A and neither one used b/c....she got 3 husbands this way (my assumption because she had been married 3 times, 4 kids, and "didn't even think about getting pregnant" with H???)