oldtimer, good advice I may see if I can dig up anything. I know for sure I cannot go to h for any of the answer it will just make him lose respect for me, if not worse. I believe I did sow enough seeds for him to doubt, if he ever chooses to rethink the whole situation later. Right now he believes her so I cannot do anything. It's funny it is just like how our betrayed spouses just ignored ALL the obvious facts at the start of the affair because we chose to believe....


M 38, H 38, two sons
Met 20 years ago
Married 13 years
Bomb: Oct, 2006
DB: Started in Dec, 2006
H moved out for 3 weeks in Mar, 2007
H back home and piecing?