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[hannahsmom]

Grace - I love that - he'll know where the fridge is !
you know last Oct on my anniversary my H called me AT WORK the day before and said what is your expectation about tomorrow - I said do whatever you think is right

so he said - I dont want you erupting when I dont get you anything - the day isnt a happy one for me and I dont want to acknowledge it - I said if thats what you need to do thats what you should
-- it killed me inside

Its like he wanted my permission to hurt me - well I dont mind DBing but that is where I draw the line !

I struggled with what to do - I ended up buying a card that had an umbrella on it and it said - I'm here is you need help in the storm
It went unread for 2 weeks and when he finally read it he thanked me
so next week for V day I expect the same speech or nothing
I am much stronger than I was on OCt and this time I will make plams without him - and HE CAN ALSO FIND THE FRIDGE