URGENT! OW had an abortion, H miserable

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Guess what happened this morning? H was supposed to go with OW to see doc for a "followup", a week after the abortion. Now she said she would go on Monday instead. Bingo!!! I guess we can all agree on this board that the probability of her lying is getting quite high at this point.
Me: "strange, that the followup is a week. I thought it would be sooner."
H: "you think she's lying".
Me:"I am sure you trust her".
H:"Yes, I trust her. People do not lie about these things. I saw the medicine, antibiotics that she's taking."
At this point, I wanted to laugh so much. But I could not tell him that "this is probably among the top 5 tricks they use". No, I kept my mouth shut. But I did say he should go to doc with her on Monday. We'll see how that goes.
I cannot say much anymore. He chooses to believe her and that's it.
At this point, I am just going to continue DBing until when I decide there's no more point doing so. Even if he was lying about everything, I would have wasted a few months doing this DB thing but for now, I choose to believe him. At the same time, I am finding my own life like contemplating a new career/school, hobbies, etc. Quite productive, actually.

Ophelia, and oldtimer, good advice. I will be supportive to him and just keep on DBing. So far I have tried a few notes on that it is her choice also. Ophelia, I would not be surprised that it was her to initiate the abortion talk as you said. Esp. since he found out Thursday night and she did it Saturday morning. I doubt he could have made a decision THAT FAST on such a serious issue. She probably needed to get the "abortion" done soon to "cover up the tracks".