Has your daughter mentioned any changes she has noticed in you? Stronger, more confident?
I don;t think shes noticed a change per se - as up to the time this has happened I have always been confident and strong - this whole thing has me a blubbering jello-like mess - but not in her presence - she is pretty perceptive but we are both ( h and me ) hidng what is going on - as he is still home with us and since he works nights this is easier than you would think. If and when the time comes if H moves out - I hope that H and I can talk it over with C on how to help my daughter cope with it - one day at a time though we are not there yet - curiously our MC thought it was odd that we were keeping D in the dark - he pushed us as to why - My C thinks this is because the MC wanted to get my H to admit how this will affect my D if he chooses to leave - sort of forcing him to confront ALL the ramiifications of his actions - for now we have still decided to lay low and keep the kiddo in the dark as much as possible
me - 47 H - 50 /49 when bomb happened Daughter 17 years old married 21 years together 26 years Bomb August 06 H still at home 'I love you but not in love with you'
