Registered: 01/27/07 Posts: 22 H has been gone for 2 months, after going dark for a short period he is working his way home. He called yesterday from work"I'm thinking about taking a half day will you be home" He came and spent the better part of 8 hours with us.(We have two boys)We ate, MIL, made dinner together.No R talk. Here's the dilemma, how can I be supportive and lend an ear when I have to hear about the time spent at friends houses, the parties he's been too,the drug and alcohol references."It's a party house,it has kept my mind off of things! This is a married guy acting single...Then he has the odacity to ask me for money until he gets paid tomorrow!! I have been struggling with the bills since he left, he gives barely nothing a week ($75.00)Now he says "I'll be home after vacation, we have a preplanned cruise in a few weeks, he's going on that too! Yes, this is piecing, but I am getting angry and resentful...He has even said "I can't get into the finances right away when I come home,it will take awhile! Everything is fine with him if things are paid for,he's along for the ride, but this is out of order.It sounds like he is having a ball, doing what he wants, why would he want to come home.And coming on vacation,Typical,his life is a vacation...I was going to give him until the middle of March and then attach his wages for support.Now he is coming back....I am angry.He is coming back tonight to bring the money he took (Oh yeah to buy beer and lottery tickets!) What's wrong with me!! I feel better than I did 6 weeks ago, losing 20 lbs. Now the anger, how can I piece when I feel this way?????
