Like a ton of bricks.

[Lost_for_now]

I will repost, thanks again for the advice! Don't worry, I didn't take it as you trying to get rid of me!

"I am also in the middle of the 'settlement'. My W wants to be amicable also. Again, makes them feel that they are not really hurting us. Let's part best buddies and good sports. Makes me sick at times."

Man do I know how you feel. It's like a double-whammy. First, it shows you that she is completely over you. Secondly, you get the benefit (if you remain friends) of hearing about her new guy! Makes me wonder if they ever think about what they're saying.