Ah, COG, just wander over to the Sex Starved Marriage forum and you will find kindred spirits abounding, sadly. It breaks my heart and simultaneously comforts me.

But we have the added bonus as having a WAS in addition to the SSM, and my H had an A (of all the jacked-up INSULTS to me as a sex-rejected woman! ack!). Healing seems very difficult, if not downright impossible here. I still don't know if we're going to keep piecing in general; there are serious problems here and I don't know that H is willing to try anymore.

BUT.

All that to say: GOD is the GOD who RAISED THE DEAD, for Pete's sake. Surely we can trust Him to work it out as He sees fit. Hard, that. But He can do it. \:D

Thanks for all your insight on the boards; I wish none of us needed to be here!

Forget the former things; do not dwell on the past.
See, I am doing a new thing! Is 43:18-19

If it seems slow in coming, wait.
It's on its way. It will come right on time. Hab 2:3

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