I agree with the connecting and pulling back. I kinda thought that maybe it but was unsure.
I did call H to just say hi. H said he was on his way to get an evaluation to get his driver's license back (lost it due to his DUI). I wished him luck and asked if he would call me back to let me know how things turned out and he said he would. He was having his boss take him. It kinda mad me said because I should have been the one to take him and be there for him, and on top of that I didn't even know he was going today. But I soon realized that this needs to be done without me and I'm okay.
M:43 H:37 D14 (ours) D18 (mine) S22 (mine) S18 (his) S: 10/2004 Bomb: 2/15/05 In/out of home Living with OW #4 Talks of D for 2-1/2 years